One of the simplest ways to know the value of any work is to hear what others say about it.
Feedback validates the message.
I have fathers who thank me for the service that my philosophy rendered to their sons; the former athlete I am thinking of is now the student body president of a major university; mothers who applaud my contribution to their sons, the young man I am referring to was on my little league baseball team and is now paying for his college degree by playing volleyball at the Division I level; and little league coaches who won repeated league titles using my techniques and philosophy.
I have been fortunate to coach four of Stephen R. Covey’s grandsons. When I shared the manuscript for this book with him, he returned this warm comment. Dr. Covey said:
“Winning is only one of many goals set by a wise coach to develop a balanced young man or woman. What if coaches nurtured, inspired vision, and instilled character development into young athletes? In Michael Clapier’s groundbreaking work you will find an effective way to mentor young athletes.”
Stephen R. Covey, best selling author of “Seven Habits of Highly Effective People”
The young coach continuing the tradition at my high school was one of my athletes when he was a student. We have had a wonderful experience over the past five years coaching my younger boys together while helping him transition into being a great head coach.
During our parent meeting at the beginning of the season, I sat back and listened while he greeted parents and said everything just the way I hoped he would. I kept wanting to stand and say something but he was doing everything so well that I sat silent, gratefully watching him set vision for the season and express interest in our shared priority of growth and safety for the boys.
I told him how much I appreciated the way that he handled the meeting. He just smiled and said, “I read your book.”
A parent sent me this note when his son graduated after six years in our programs.
“The opportunities in life to be touched by extraordinary concepts are few. Our son blossomed and grew under Coach Clapier’s coaching philosophy . Lessons learned and character built under Michael’s watchful care will bless our family for a lifetime. We cannot say ‘thank you’ enough.”
Kim B.
Here is a comment from a friend. I coached her son during junior high school.
“Michael Clapier has touched our family through youth sports. He truly is a gifted coach/parent and has a great family to prove it. I just ordered his book, can’t wait to get! Thanks Mike for all you have done for us and good luck.”
Pam H.
And this one.
“I have a copy and it is an amazing read. Should be in the hands of anyone that coaches youth sports, has children involved in youth sports or any parent that wants to know how to get the most out of the LIFE lessons learned through organized recreation. I am so proud that more kids can benefit from what you have learned through all the years of hard work. The lives that you have impacted, people can now make an impact in the same way. Talk about paying it forward. Love Love Love it!!!!”
Sue S.
Thanks to all for letting me know what you think.
(Sorry for being so self serving but we have to pay the rent.)